Aries And Aries Compatibility
When two Aries come together in a love affair, there’s bound to be fireworks. These two are always competing, which can make for quite a challenging love match. An Aries-Aries relationship is like looking into a mirror: Aries understands their partner’s need for independence because they’re the same way. At times, however, they can be possessive and turn into two Rams butting heads. They have to learn not to compete with one another so much. If they can do so, their partnership can be extremely powerful.
An Aries-Aries love match is a meeting of two strong spirits; generally, the relationship is positive and enthusiastic. They love to try new things — often extreme sports or some other intense activity. Solving the inevitable problems of a close relationship can be tough due to the two egos constantly clashing. They must learn to work together. Since both partners like things to go their way, they must make a conscious effort not to be selfish. Aries also has a natural generosity, however, so two Aries together can certainly learn to take turns indulging each other. Aries is very open with their feelings; totally straightforward, two Aries will never have problems with deceit or hypocrisy. Both partners will have trouble with temper outbursts that result from hasty judgments. Aries just wants to get on with it, already!
Representing the infant, this first sign of the Zodiac has under it, people who are born intrepid fighters. Privacy is of utmost importance to Arians and they always try to protect their identity. Charged up with energy Aries people stimulate their tasks by their inner power. People born under Aries are extrovert and straightforward in their personal relationships. Being prone to hurt others, Arians are also not slow in forgetting and forgiving. Arians make fastidious and passionate lovers.
Aries are action people, born to initiate and lead. This makes for an exciting and dynamic personality. Their main strength is their courage to face life’s challenges head on, and ability to inspire others.
The most compatible signs with Aries are generally considered to be Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius. The least compatible signs with Aries are generally considered to be Cancer and Capricorn. For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships between Aries and each of the other zodiac signs we have a separate index of articles.
Aries and Aries Relationships
There’s a very high chance this will be an explosive love-hate relationship, and unlike most other sign matches it can actually be a good thing.
You’re both very independent and impulsive, and you both love a good fight. Whether you admit it to yourself or not, you also enjoy a little chaos and instability in your life. You also grudgingly respect an aggressive sparring partner!
Throw in the high likelihood of explosive make up sex, and you’ll each find yourself subconsciously looking forward to those arguments and fights on some level. This match will make it very hard to leave each other without going back. Why?
You’re a drug to each other – you’ll have trouble matching the intensity of either the arguments or the sex elsewhere, and while other relationships may be a lot more harmonious and outwardly appealing, sooner or later you’ll need that ‘fix’, and you’ll know exactly who can provide it!
Communication And Stabilizing The Relationship
If you want a committed long term Aries and Aries relationship you’ll probably each need to make some changes. Given you both enjoy a good fight occasionally, and for once you can have that outlet in each other without ‘wearing out’ someone else, in moderation it’s a good setup.
The danger is that it will also be a balancing act. You both need a certain amount of competition to fire you up. However neither of you are good at backing down, so be very wary of how far you raise the stakes, and what you say in the heat of the moment.
If you can harness your energy as a couple though the sky’s the limit, and Aries-Aries is a very powerful match when working as a team. On the flip side, your weaknesses are also compounded, notably your control issues, impatience, comfort with risk taking, reluctance to take advice, and a lack of practicality. You can expect a fairly regular level of crisis, though neither of you may see that as a bad thing.
You’re both passionate and impatient lovers, and for once the other person will be able to not only keep up, but totally appreciate it. Throw in the emotional element from arguments and disputes, and there’s a good chance you’ll be trying to kill each other.. in a good way. The only thing to be wary of is if one of you ‘wins’ the war, and becomes the boss in bed. This will gradually turn off the other. You’ll have more fun if you take turns to be on top.
Neither of you are in a rush to make a long term commitment, and the mutual freedom this allows tends to work well. Aries-Aries relationships can work well on a casual level, and tend to survive better than most, though for reasons few other signs can really fathom or appreciate.
It’s important to note however that we’re looking only at sun signs here. There are many other planets which can have an equal or greater effect on someone’s personality. Makes sense, as ultimately everyone is of course unique. Generalizing too far based just on sun signs can therefore be misleading.
Aries and Aries Compatibility Summary
So is this article conclusive? No! This article is based only on sun sign interaction. In order to provide a lot of people with information it’s a convenient and fast way to generalize, but it’s far from conclusive at this broad level.
To get a complete picture we need to take all the other planets and their interactions into account for each of you. If you would like more information on this for your unique relationship please see the astrology compatibility reports page.